By Jenny Zook
Ever feel like your to-do list is a never-ending loop in your head? Same here! I can’t even walk through a room without my brain jumping to the next task. And let’s be real, most of those tasks don’t involve taking care of me. As a busy mom of twin boys, I know how easy it is to get lost in the shuffle. That’s why I make it a point to pour into my own cup—starting with outfits that remind me I’m more than just “mom.” If you’re in a style rut, try these 5 steps to rediscover your confidence and spark joy in your day. And then watch how that can have a ripple effect on everyone in your life!
1. Shop Your Closet First
Before buying something new, dig into your wardrobe and rediscover the treasures you already own. It’s not about having more clothes; it’s about making the most of what you have. You’ll save time, money, and stress by working with the pieces that already work for you as a base. Then, each season, you can sprinkle in some new pieces that you will know how to mix with the existing pieces you know you like.
2. Focus on Fit, Not Size
Forget the number on the tag! I will shout this from the rooftops until my dying day! It’s all about how clothes fit and flatter your unique body NOT the number on the tag. Learn to dress for your shape and embrace pieces that highlight what you love about yourself. A great fit will give you confidence faster than any trendy outfit ever could.
3. Create Go-To Outfit Formulas
Simplify your mornings by having a few outfit “formulas” in your back pocket. Whether it’s a blazer with a tee and jeans or a cozy sweater with leggings and boots, these combinations make getting dressed a breeze—no guesswork required. I also recommend using what you know about your shape to enhance these formulas because once you know the cuts that flatter you best, building outfits becomes so much easier.
4. Think Seasonally, Not Sporadically
Instead of constantly shopping, build a seasonal capsule wardrobe with versatile, functional pieces that work together. You’ll save time, create less waste, and always feel prepared for whatever the day throws at you. This is the foundation of what I teach women how to do because while it sounds simple, it’s easy to get confused and/or overwhelmed by all that gets thrown at us.
5. Dress for How You Want to Feel
Style isn’t just about looking good—it’s about feeling amazing. Ask yourself: Do I want to feel playful? Powerful? Comfortable? Let that guide your choices. When you feel good in your clothes, you show up differently—and that confidence is contagious.
Remember, feeling pulled together isn’t frivolous or a luxury. These tips are about making style accessible, practical, and empowering for busy moms like you who don’t have time for chaos but deserve to feel confident every single day. It also happens to be the foundation of what I teach inside Style School. I created it for moms like you and me who want to get dressed in under 5 minutes a day in clothes that fit their bodies, budgets, and lifestyles. To find out more, visit my website at https://www.jennyzook.com/
About the Author
Jenny Zook is a mom, style teacher and the founder of Style School, where they ditch the “rules” of fashion and focus on what truly works. Jenny enjoys helping busy women feel amazing in their clothes—no matter their size, shape, or season of life. With a background in teaching and love for all things functional and fun, Jenny believes style isn’t about chasing trends but about unlocking confidence and joy in what you wear. To find out more visit https://www.jennyzook.com/
